Amid the ideality Instagram is strewn with, the journalist and blogger Danae Mercer shows a bit of reality.  33-year-old Danae tells how easy it is to create the “illusion” of an ideal body with the help of angle, pose and light, which is what most Instagram models do.  

She does not hesitate to prove again that in this world it is not necessary to be impeccable.  Social networks are full of impeccable bodies and models.  They publish photos of their ideal bodies, using them as a marketing tool to sell or promote something. 

 Other girls have complexes, and they desperately strive to look perfect too.  But reality is not always so perfect, and journalist Danae Mercer is not shy about proving it.  

The woman herself suffered from an eating disorder for several years, and managed on her own, starting to do sports and changing her diet.  Now Danae is convincing her subscribers (of which she has 1.1 million) that with all the photo editors and the ability to choose a pose and angle, it is so easy to make ourselves "perfect" in our world.

If a person is lucky in life, then he had (and has) a mother.  Mom who is always worried and vigilant.   She is vigilant if you put on underpants and hats so that we don’t smoke, drink or get involved in bad company.  Moms are incredibly pestering and meticulous.  And they are only because they unconditionally and immensely love us. This is what Bemorepanda prepared for you :

I Don't Know How She Does It, 2011

The mother of two children, wife and fund manager Kate resembles a robot.  At the same time, she can talk with her child on the phone, buy stocks, cuddle with her husband, bake a cake (or pretend to bake a cake), worry about the fate of her best friend, organize a children's party, go without a taxi, running around the city in high heels. The only puncture - before the start of her “life marathon”, the heroine did not have time to think about the fact that there is no ideal system, and any existing one is not immune from failures.

Changeling, 2008

The plot is based on real events of 1928 and the next few years.  Single mother Christine Collins has lost her son, and she turns to the police for help.  After some time, the child is returned to her.  However, despite the resemblance, Christine categorically refuses to admit her child, and she is sent to a psychiatric clinic.  Thanks to one friend, she comes to the conclusion that her son and several other children could become a victim of a maniac, and decides to find out the truth at all costs.

The Blind Side, 2009

Young African American Michael Ohr wanders around foster families.  When a difficult fate once again pushes the boy out into the street, his friend’s mother comes to the rescue - a determined and independent conservative, interior designer Lee Ann Tui.  Ohr is invited to Thuy's house and gradually joins their family. This is followed by school success and joining the American football school team, where Michael soon shows himself to be an indispensable leader.  But then a doubt arises in his soul: did the callous conservative really shelter him out of kindness and without reckoning?

Raising Helen, 2004

Helen Harris confidently goes through life on 12-centimeter stilettos: from the office of the modeling agency, where she serves as an assistant director - to a fashion show, from a nightclub for VIPs - to bed with some promising fashion model.  But a car accident changes the established order in her life: the elder sister of the girl dies, bequeathing her three of her children - from 5 to 15 years.  And the careless woman begins a completely different everyday life.  From Helen, mommy is really fashionable, but is she good?

Mamma Mia!, 2008 & Mamma Mia! Here We Go Again, 2018

Young Sophie has a dilemma: preparations for the wedding are in full swing, almost all issues have already been resolved, but there is simply no one to lead the bride to the altar.  Secretly from her mother, a girl enters her bedroom and finds a diary that she kept in her youth.  It turns out that at that time Donna was in love with three men, each of whom could potentially be her father Sophie.  The bride immediately writes a letter to the trinity, and, to her surprise, all three immediately respond and come to the wedding.

Bad Moms, 2016 & Bad Mom's Christmas, 2017

Torn between work and home, Amy does not notice how her husband begins to cheat on her.  She is no longer able to be an “ideal” mom, she scores for unnecessary household chores, overwork, sends the traitor husband to hell and declares herself a “bad” mom.  To her surprise, it turns out that her “manifest” has followers!

Sophie's Choice, 1982

This movie s not only about a woman named Sophie, who lost all her loved ones during the fascist era.  This is a movie about a man who constantly makes choices, is forced to make choices.  Sophie chooses between her life and the life of her father, between silence and screaming, between her husband and lover.  She chooses between son and daughter.  She makes choices all her life.  The movie is that sometimes we make the wrong choice and are forced to reap its benefits.