Valentine's Day, the Western holiday of love is celebrated every year on February 14. On this day, lovers around the world celebrate Valentine's Day. This holiday, when people send about 150 million greeting cards, is considered the second most popular holiday after Christmas.

The origin of this holiday of lovers is not clear even today, there are only the legends that mysteriously surround this day and that have in their center St. Valentine. The first attestation of February 14 was in the year 498, when three saints were appointed by Pope Gelasius I, the date of their celebration being this day.

But the holiday remains associated with the name of Valentine in Rome, who was sent to prison for secretly officiating marriages for soldiers who were forbidden to do so. While in prison, he allegedly healed his guardian's daughter, Asterius. It seems that, before the execution, he would have sent her a letter, which he signed with "your Valentine", as a sign of goodbye.

On the other hand, other legends claim that this day is celebrated in early February, because during this period the Roman holiday Lupercalia took place. The event took place around February 15 and honored fertility, Faunus, the Roman god of agriculture, but also Romulus and Remus, the founders of Rome.

Bemorepanda collected a top of funny memes for this day.

1. Valentine's Day is coming

 

2.Do you have a crush?

 

3.Around the corner

 

4.Violets are blue

 

5.The day of love

 

6.Single on Valentine's Day

 

7.It's Valentine's Day

 

8.Stuff of love

 

9.Regional Manager

 

10.Spending Valentine's Day

 

11.Solo for too long

 

12.Kanye likes kanye

 

13.Prettier face

 

14.Saved money on Valentines Day

 

15.Attention lover

 

16. What about lonliness

 

17.Wi-fi?

 

18.Valentines Day less than 2 weeks away

 

19.Valentines Day?

 

20.Do I have a date for Valentines Day?

 

21.Treating you right

 

22.This fish, is my fish

 

23.Boyfriend's clothes

 

24.I'm DTF

 

25.When bae text you love messages

 

26.Relationship goals

 

27.The day I met you

 

28.Hi there, how are you

 

29.I am not the best

 

30.Both crazy, but you're in love

 

We often hear from friends or even from a psychologist that relationships between a man and a woman must be built on trust, and it’s hard not to agree with this. Trust is a feeling of complete calmness, the absence of any doubts. Complete natural relationship. Trust is an open relationship built on confidence in the decency, and goodwill of the other person towards you. Trust knows no doubt, where doubt begins, trust dies.

 

Relationship memes

 

Indeed, trust is the main component of harmonious relations, but where to get this very component? How to learn to trust each other?

 

At the very beginning of a relationship, there are usually no problems with trust. After all, initially, letting someone close to us and entering into a relationship, we give this person a certain credit of trust. While looking through these memes you can also read about trust in relationships. So let’s start!

 

1. Modern wedding

 

2. Gossip

 

3. Crush

 

4. Fever

 

By the way, perhaps this is why it becomes more and more difficult to fall in love with age: we accumulate some experience in relationships, and often we no longer let new people in so easily (although there are, of course, exceptions!).

 

Sometimes this unwillingness to trust and, as a result, let someone into your life becomes the true cause of loneliness, although a person can attribute this to the lack of suitable partners.

 

But be that as it may, the initial trust established during the period of falling in love is not eternal. Over time, as the relationship loses its novelty, we begin to seriously study the partner and find out how trustworthy he is.

 

Indeed, during the candy-bouquet period, both a man and a woman behave a little differently and try to seem better than they really are. When it ends, we become ourselves again, all our previous experience floats to the surface, which largely determines our perception of relationships.

 

This is a very important period when you can build a truly trusting relationship, but often our past experience interferes with us. Once burned, we no longer want to experience pain, although we are well aware that without some degree of risk, a full life and full-fledged relationships are impossible.

 

Why is it so important to trust each other? We can say that trust is like a prism through which we look at our beloved. If the degree of trust is high, then we tend to interpret his actions from the best side and do not look for a double meaning in them.

 

5. Last relationship

 

6. Gas

 

7. Fix him

 

8. My friends

 

9. Cuddles

 

If there is no trust, then even the most innocent things can be perceived as a sign of betrayal, as indifference, as an attempt to offend, etc. But just take it and decide that from today, for example, you will trust and stop secretly reading SMS and email husband's mail, it will not work.

 

Trust is something that takes time and sometimes even effort. Let's try to figure out what affects our ability and willingness to trust a loved one.

 

On the forums, you can often find posts in the spirit of “Today I got into my husband’s phone, and there some Zhanna writes to him that she won’t be able to have lunch with him. Girls, what to do? Really, what to do? What if this Zhanna is her husband's mistress?

 

True, with the same success she can be a colleague. Everything depends, as we have already said, on trust, that is, on the very prism through which we look at the situation and at the person.

 

Although the very fact that a person did not disdain to get into the personal correspondence of another person (even the closest one), already suggests that the prism is somewhat ... dusty. But do not immediately blame the woman for everything.

 

In fact, the ability and willingness to trust depend on many factors - this is the relationship of parents, and the environment, and past experience ...

 

For example, how close psychologically you let your other half get to you is largely determined by what kind of relationship your parents had, how much they demonstrated trust in each other.

 

If the norm was secrecy or regular interrogation in the spirit of "Where were you (and) with whom", then there is a chance that you will unconsciously carry this same relationship pattern into your marriage.

 

10. Movie

 

11. No vision

 

12. Sleeping stuff

 

13. Chicken nuggets

 

14. Attitude

 

Moreover, your half may have a completely opposite idea of what degree of trust should be between spouses, to what extent a woman should participate in the affairs of a man, and what are the boundaries of what is permitted in the behavior of spouses.

 

Of course, sometimes already on the first date it is clear that you are not on the way with some person, but most often such things are found out just in the “post-candy” period or already in marriage.

 

Another important factor is the environment, and it's not just about girlfriends or relatives. This includes the information environment, the media space, which, in turn, also shapes our understanding of what relationships should be.

 

Perhaps you will agree that in modern society there is a slightly perverted understanding of relationships. Sexual emancipation and emotional independence have become the ideal, and people who build marriage on mutual respect and trust and remain faithful to each other are considered almost hypocrites.

 

In addition, a fashion for open relationships has appeared, and in theory it probably looks great, but in reality it often turns out that one is satisfied with this and he openly enjoys freedom, while the other silently endures out of love for a partner and tries to come to terms.

 

It turns out some kind of game of trust: on the one hand, there are no secrets, on the other hand, the lack of true intimacy and, which is also important, the confidence that a loved one will not hurt (after all, cheating, he causes it regularly).

 

The self-assessment of partners also influences the formation of the “prism of trust”. Obviously, the lower a person evaluates himself, the less confident he will feel in a relationship.

 

Perhaps this is some kind of childhood trauma, due to which a person has a strong conviction that he is not worthy of love and cannot be the only one for someone. Often this is precisely what is behind the manic need to control a partner, read his SMS and e-mail, arrange various checks.

 

Thus, it turns out that trust and the degree of emotional closeness in a couple depend not only on how much you love and how much you want to trust.

 

15. Farted

 

16. Long time chilling

 

17. Relationship

 

18. Mall in China

 

19. So me

 

20. Finding everything

 

21. Me as wife

 

22. Dramatic

 

23. Flitritng

 

24. Really like you

 

25. My soulmate

 

26. Granted

 

27. Helping each other

 

28. Don’t pack much

 

29. About no

 

30. Love forever

 

31. Little princess

 

32. Loyal

 

33. 50/50

 

34.Real name

 

35. Our shirt

 

36. Story time

 

37. Impress today

 

38. Queen

 

39. The future is here

 

40. Apologize

 

41. Just always

 

42. Good message

 

43. Sibilings

 

44. Free for you

 

45. Not ready

 

46. Dates

 

47. Just trying

 

48. Seriously?

 

49. Argue

 

50. Be mad