The vast majority of people associate Latin with doctors' prescriptions, because, as we know, they are written in Latin. But at the same time, there are many well-known phrases in Latin, which, no, no, and you will meet in someone's speech.

People who can speak this ancient language are perceived by others as educated. But sometimes it’s not at all necessary to learn it “from and to”, it’s enough to remember a few common phrases and, if necessary, flaunt them in a conversation - and then you will certainly look smarter in the eyes of other people. Moreover, you already know something: for example, alma mater, persona non grata, etc.

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Bemorepanda has collected 35 Latin expressions (and their meanings) that can be used in conversation. The main thing is that they are "on topic".

1. "Mulgere hircum" - "Milk a goat"

This Latin phrase means trying to do something impossible. Which makes sense, given that it's impossible to milk a goat.

2. "Festina lente" - "Hurry slowly"

In fact, this expression calls to act quickly, but prudently, carefully. Augustus, the Roman emperor, often chastised his generals, advising them to "make haste slowly" because he thought that haste was dangerous.

3. "Persona non grata" - "Persona non grata" ("Unwanted person")

Refers to a person who is not welcome or is not wanted to go anywhere due to their behavior or other reasons. For example: "He became persona non grata in our company after his indecent behavior."

4. "Alma mater" - "Caring mother"

This refers to the educational institution that a person once attended: school, college, university.

5. "Veni, vidi, vici" - "I came, I saw, I conquered"

Julius Caesar is believed to have used the phrase in a letter he wrote to the Roman Senate in 47 BC to inform them of his victory over the Pontic king Pharnaces II near Zela.

6. "Acta, non verba" - "Deeds, not words"

In other words, "More action - less words." That is, always back up your words with deeds or act in accordance with what you say.

7. "Ad meliora" - "For the better"

8. "Mortuum flagellas" - "Smack the dead"

This Latin phrase means a useless action towards someone who will not be affected in any way.

9. "Amicus certus in re incerta cernitur" - "Friends are known in the hour of need"

We have it sounds like "A friend in need is known."

10. "Malo mori quam foedari" - "Better death than dishonor"

11. "De gustibus non est disputandum" - "Tastes do not argue"

Tastes are evaluated more subjectively than objectively - everyone has their own.

12. "Lupus in fabula" - "Wolf in a fairy tale"

With the meaning "Speak about the wolf and he will come" (from Terence's play "Adelfoy").

13. "Alea iacta est" - "The die is cast"

This is another phrase Julius Caesar uttered when he entered Italy and started a protracted civil war against Pompey and the optimates. The meaning of the phrase is "There is no going back."

14. "Carpe diem" - "Seize the moment"

Another Latin phrase that is often used these days. The saying aims to motivate people to focus on the present, not the future, and make the most of it.

15. "Aut Caesar aut nihil" - "Either Caesar, or nothing"

It is pretty much the Latin equivalent of "All or Nothing". The notorious Italian Cardinal Cesare Borgia lived according to this principle. Now this phrase can be used to denote an adamant desire to succeed.

16. "Ad astra per aspera" - "Through adversity to the stars"

For us, the sound is more familiar: “Through thorns to the stars,” but the essence of this does not change.

17. "Pecunia non olet" - "Money does not smell"

It is believed that the history of the origin of this expression is as follows. When the Roman emperor Vespasian introduced a tax on public toilets, his son Titus complained about the "disgusting" nature of the money. Vespasian held up a gold coin and asked if it smelled, and he himself answered: non olet ("it does not smell"). From here, the phrase was expanded to pecunia non olet - "Money does not smell."

18. "Mea culpa" - "My fault"

This Latin phrase is used to admit one's fault or mistake.

19. "De facto" - "Actually"

De facto describes a real situation, though not necessarily intentional or legal. For example: Whatever is on the calendar, Florida is de facto summer. Or: De facto, it is he who is the leader at the moment.

20. "Et cetera" - "And so on"

Perhaps every student's favorite expression when they simply can't name more examples.

21. "Nitimur in vetitum" - "We strive for the forbidden"

Means that when we are denied something, we will want it even more. Think of Eve, who ate the forbidden fruit. No wonder they say: "Forbidden fruit is sweet."

22. "In vino veritas" - "Truth is in wine"

This Latin proverb implies that a person under the influence of alcohol is more inclined to express his hidden desires and thoughts.

The same as "What is on the sober mind, the drunk on the tongue."

23. "Quid pro quo" - "Something for something"

In other words, quid pro quo. Basically, this Latin phrase means favor in exchange for something.

24. "Status quo" - "The current state (of affairs)"

Applies to the current situation. For example: "The maintenance of such a status quo only weakened our already fragile positions."

25. "Audentes fortuna iuvat" - "Fortune favors the brave"

Apparently, these were the last words of Pliny the Elder before he sailed from the docks of Pompeii in 79 to save his friend Pomponianus from the eruption of Vesuvius.

In the same sense as "Who does not risk, he does not drink champagne" or "The courage of the city takes."

26. "Amor vincit omnia" - "Love conquers all"

This Latin saying originally appeared in Virgil's Eclogues (X, 69) in the 1st century BC. The phrase means unshakable love that will endure any trials and overcome all obstacles that stand in the way. Therefore, they often say: "There are no barriers to love."

27. "Surdo oppedere" - "Burp in front of the deaf"

Simply put, according to Desiderius Erasmus' Adagia (1508), surdo oppedere means a useless action.

Well, or in our manner: “Throw pearls in front of pigs”, that is, it’s pointless to prove or explain something to someone, because he still won’t understand or appreciate it.

28. "Cui bono?" "Good for who?"

This term implies that one should look for the culprit in the person to whom the unpleasant event will benefit / benefit.

29. "Timeo Danaos et dona ferentes" - "Fear the Danaans who bring gifts"

This expression from the Aeneid, the Latin epic poem by Virgil, was uttered by the Trojan priest Laocoön when he warned his fellow Trojans about accepting the Trojan horse from the Greeks.

An alternative translation could be: "Do not trust your enemies who bring you gifts", as this may be to your detriment.

30. “Homo sum humani a me nihil linearum puto” - “I am a man, therefore nothing human is alien to me”

Something like “We are all people, we are all people” (the expression came from Russian classical literature). It means that any person has weaknesses or can stumble, do something unseemly.

31. "Sine qua non" - "Sine qua non"

Refers to something absolutely necessary, without which something is impossible.

32. "Qui totum vult totum perdit" - "He who wants everything loses everything."

From the same series as "You want a lot - you get a little."

33. "Solamen miseris socios habuisse doloris" - "Misfortune loves company"

It is understood that it is a consolation for the unfortunate that others share their grief.

We usually say: "Together, grief is easier to bear."

34. "Oderint dum metuant" - "Let them hate, if only they were afraid"

Favorite saying of Caligula, originally attributed to Lucius Actius, Roman tragic poet (170 BC); also the motto of the Russian noble family Krasnitsky.

35. "Cogito, ergo sum" - "I think, therefore I am"

This famous phrase by René Descartes may seem vague and confusing, but it was the result of his unique, individualistic approach to philosophy. According to him, many of the world's problems stem from the way we use our minds - from misunderstanding, poor definition, and unintentional illogicality.

We often have to tell our children “no”, “no”, “stop”, “come on”, etc. And sometimes we do not limit ourselves to just a polite request and sometimes even raise our voice at our child. Moreover, we often pronounce many words of refusal on the machine, which is not good, and this can negatively affect the still unformed child's psyche. Family and child psychologists told how we incorrectly say “no” to our children or forbid something.

Our children and the "no"? - How to say…

We at Bemorepanda, listening to the advice of psychologists, figured out which phrases are better not to say to your colors of life and what is better to replace them.

How to make prohibitions for a child, Or how to refuse a child without negative consequences

There are many situations in which it is necessary to stop the child as soon as possible. And nothing but “no” or “no” comes to mind at this moment. However, there are many tricks and tricks that will help protect the baby by competently forbidding him something and maintaining a trusting relationship with his parents, as well as his psycho-emotional state.

For example, there is a situation when the youngest child appears in the family. The elders at this moment cannot restrain their emotion and begin to pinch and squeeze the children, sometimes not controlling the power of their love and hurting the baby. At this moment, you can just come up and say: “More gentle”, “Careful”, “Careful”. So the child will understand what exactly he is doing wrong and that he is still an equal and beloved member of the family.

Another important point is to maintain a calm and friendly intonation. You also always need to argue your ban and offer children an alternative. After all, it is always better for children to give clear instructions for action. A strict ban is often perceived as a challenge, and curiosity and a desire to go against the grain arise.

“No one wants to hear a permanent “no” addressed to them. This can seem harsh and lead to a breakdown in relationships, ”said Jasmine McCoy, a famous mom-psychologist.

Using the right words and structures is also important as the child's brain is actively developing and overcoming difficulties. The words of the parent often become the inner voice of the child, which is of great importance for him. And if you want to raise a compassionate person who can solve problems, you need to think about your actions now. So say experts Christine Gallant and Dina Margolin.

Need to communicate desired behaviour

There are emergency situations in which the child needs to be stopped quickly and abruptly. But a categorical “no” will confuse the baby, as he will not understand what exactly they want from him. In the same situation with the younger child and cheeks, it was important to convey to the child that parents demand that he be more sensitive, accurate and gentle, and do not want to forbid him to interact with the younger child.

It is always good to pause and think carefully about what is required of the child. And only after that you need to inform the baby about your options, which will increase the chance of being heard.

You can ask yourself the question: “What can I do to make the child act differently? How can I express myself as clearly as possible? For example, if the baby makes a lot of noise and runs around, you can tell him that now parents want more silence. Then you can invite the child to change the type of activity, play in a different place, or switch from running to walking, giving the child a choice and justifying his position.

This is not easy to get used to, especially when you need to stop the baby, for example in a museum or library. However, when it comes to automatism, success will be guaranteed.

It is important to be prepared for failures - children do not always immediately change their behavior, time and experience are also needed here.

Here are a few more phrases that will help correct the behaviour of the child:

• "Please use a calmer tone" instead of "Stop yelling!"
• “It's hard to understand you when you scream. Try to express your thoughts in a calm tone.
• "Splash the other way" instead of "Stop splashing!"
• "Try not to splatter the bathroom floor."
• "Please chew with your mouth closed."
• "Be careful with toys."
• "Slow down the pace."
• "Play with plasticine on the table."
• “Chairs are only for sitting. Don't stand on them, please."
• “The sand must be in the bucket. It doesn't need to be thrown away."
• “You can't throw away food. It must be eaten or left on the table.”
• “They eat at the table. If you want to play, get up from the table."
• "Take my hand or stay in the cart" instead of "Don't run!"
• “Our bodies are not meant to hurt. Please be careful with your sister."
• “You can play on the tablet only after eating. Put it on the table, please."

Limited choice

Many parents worry about giving their child the freedom to choose. Excitement is caused by the fact that the child can go to extremes. Therefore, a small restriction here will be beneficial. Instead of a complete independent choice, you can offer the child two or three alternatives. This will keep him from feeling overwhelmed.

It is important to consider the wishes and feelings of the child when offering alternatives. Children constantly ask for something, and frequent refusals tire both the child and the parent. You can soften the blow by letting the baby know that the parent hears his wishes, and when the time is right, you can offer an alternative.

“It is important here not only to confirm the desire of the child, but also to explain why it cannot be fulfilled here and now,” Jasmine McCoy.

For example, instead of banning cookies, you could say, “Hmm, they look delicious. But let's eat it after the main meal."

Or: “I know you really want to go to the park. And I would like to go with you. But let's go there tomorrow. For example, after lunch. What would you like to see there?" In this way, the child will be involved in a conversation about his desire, which will help the baby feel heard, even if he is rejected.

And this example perfectly demonstrates the algorithm that Gallant and Margolin gave:

• Agreement with feelings.
• Holding boundaries.
• Freedom of choice.

“I know that you are sad to part with the tablet. But the time allotted for it is over. You can play outside. For example, in a sandbox or on a swing. Where would you like to go?"

“At the same time, the reaction of the child will not always be positive, because children tend to express their disappointment or disagreement through protests and tantrums. And that's okay." - Jasmine McCoy.

In this case, you can always show sympathy without bending to the demands of the child. One must try to continue to make statements based on facts, while remaining as calm as possible even in an emergency. For example:

"Do you want to throw sand? But now it's not possible anymore, because I want your eyes to be safe. Let's continue tomorrow."

“You can’t throw food - it should be on a plate. It looks like you don't feel like eating right now. Let's go another time."

Sandwich yes-no

“This method will help to avoid the struggle for power,” Gallant and Margolin. Instead of a categorical refusal, you can simply insert a “no” between two “yes”. For example: “Going to the park is a great idea! But now we have to go to school. Let's go to the park tomorrow."

Precise instructions instead of questions

Adults are accustomed to expressing their requests with an interrogative intonation, using the construction "Could you ...?" This confuses the child, because sometimes he does not understand - this is a question or a call to action. It is important to direct the request accurately, while remaining calm.

Physical Contact

Whispering in your ear can be much more effective than shouting across the room. The more active and excited the child, the calmer his parent should be. “Body language does much more than words,” McCoy.

It is important to get closer to the child, bend over and calmly explain your request, making eye contact. This is especially helpful when the child is experiencing strong emotions. And close contact will let the child know that the parent is serious.

"No" for extreme cases

“In some situations, you have to categorically express a ban on some actions. Strict prohibition in critical situations often helps to keep the child safe. But overuse of this phrase reduces its effectiveness, so it is important to say a strict “no” only when it is really necessary, excluding him from everyday life, ”- Jasmine McCoy.

Prohibiting many things is one of the main responsibilities of a responsible parent. But the main thing is to correctly express these prohibitions and reduce possible crises to a minimum.

When using the yes-no sandwich technique, the child may think they are free to make their own decisions. But in fact, he will feel safe thanks to "clear, consistent boundaries." Using inhibitions effectively will help minimize negativity and frustration and provide an opportunity to develop more positive interactions with your child.

One of the main tasks of the social policy of each state is to ensure for all children favorable conditions for life, development and education, as well as their protection against violence. No violence against children can be justified and any kind of violence can be prevented. However, children around the world face violence in the family, in the community and in educational institutions - both from other students and from employees. Having a complex and sensitive character, until recently, this issue was not on the agenda of the world community. The UN Global Report on Violence against Children, published in 2006, has become the first international experience of a complex analysis not only of the proportions of the phenomenon of violence against children, but also of its negative consequences.

When dealing with bullying, it is important for children to see their strengths, they should be encouraged to focus on things other than bullying, such as favorite activities or new hobbies. Also, don't spend too much time talking about bullying. By doing so, we keep them focused on the negative in their lives. Instead, help him see that there are other things in life to be happy about. This will help build resilience.

Bemorepanda collected some rude messages that were published on Twitter.

1.Where is your proof?

2.No excuses

3.Online classes

4.So rude

5.That’s sad

6.Take pictures

7.Sorry for your loss

8.An idiot

9.Freshman year

10.Next time

11.0 for everything

12.Infection in leg

13.I don’t want excuses

14.Perfect grade

15.Give a proof

16.2 weeks ago

17.So sorry

18.What about your presentation?

19.Sympathise

20.One more proof

21.It happened actually?

22.Out for work

23.Never understand

24.No indication

25.Homework done

26.Undergrad

27.Doctor note

28.Emphaty

29.I guess I’ll believe you

30.That’s a sad story

31.Very common

32.Sorry for you loss

33.Mom case

34.Happened to my school

35.College professor

36.A student

37.Young brother

38.Hospitalized

39.Matriach

40.So sorry

41.Had this happen

42.Happened to my mom

43.So sorry

44.Husband

45.My condoleances

46.Sorry about your loss

47.Sister be like

48.Sorry for your loss

49.Questions

50.Sad story

Many people are afraid to go to church - some are bored, others don't like hearing the same old sermons, and still others just hate getting up early on Sunday. However, this is not always the case - ask Pastor Adam of Clackamas United Church of Christ. The pastor invites people of all races, religions and sexual orientations to his church and actively spreads the message that God loves everyone through his healthy church signs.

This church encourages with many positive messages. Bemorepanda has collected some of them for you.

1.Wear a mask

2.Kind atheists

3.Using the Bible wrong

4.Heartbeats

5.God created therapists

6.Jesus was a person of color

7.Money from wars

8.Homsexual people

9.Jesus healed the sick

10.Universal living

11.Religious bad man

12.God loves you

13.Happy pride month

14.More courageous 

15.Opposite of racist

16.Brown skinned refugee

17.Jesus birthday

18.People learn to hate

19.The same crime

20.True patriots

21.The house is on fire

22.My children

23.Transgender sibilings

24.Womens got the point 

25.Soicialism

26.Compassion

27.Christlike

28.Working overtime

29.Black lives matter

30.To love

It often happens that in a dispute or an unpleasant conversation with other people, we do not find what to say in response to them. Clever thoughts, as a rule, come later, when, in fact, there is no one to “be smart” with. We think with regret: why didn’t I think of this earlier?!

 

Phrases that can come in handy when you don’t know what to answer (and to cheer you up)

 

Well, as experience shows, often in awkward situations or responses to outright rudeness, humor (or even sarcasm) is what you need. However, as we noted above, the problem is that only some of us are born comedians, and we cannot always come up with a witty phrase at the right moment. But in this case, we at Bemorepanda have a solution: remember the words that can come in handy in such cases. With this small set, you will always be fully armed and able to stand up for yourself without offending anyone. Yes, and occasionally, you can easily cheer yourself and others up. Because not everyone will think of such a thing!

 

 

1. Silence is golden. Unless you have children, then it's suspicious.

 

2. Of course, I talk to myself. Sometimes I need an expert's opinion.

 

3. When they tell me: “You will regret it in the morning,” I sleep until noon because I can solve problems.

 

4. Life is a bowl of soup, and I am a fork.

 

5. If you can’t eat at night, then why is there a light bulb in the refrigerator?

 

6. If your name isn't Google, stop acting like you know everything.

 

7. It's okay if you don't like me. Only some have good taste.

 

8. If only fools surround you, then you are central.

 

9. It’s not enough to know your worth - you still need to be in demand

 

10. It may seem that I am doing nothing. But in my head, I'm swamped.

 

 

11. They say money doesn't bring happiness. Nevertheless, it is better to check everything yourself.

 

12. Smart thoughts constantly haunt me, but I'm faster.

 

13. Even the dullest room will be animated by the most ordinary children, beautifully placed in the corners.

 

14. Don't worry if plan A doesn't work; there are 32 more letters in the alphabet.

 

15. I would be offended, but I'm too busy mentally correcting your mistakes.

 

16. I am an example for others. Bad example.

 

17. I would like to thank my middle finger for always standing up for me when I needed it.

 

18. My bed and I are perfect for each other, but my alarm clock is trying to separate us.

 

19. A person's true nature is clearly revealed when the supermarket opens the second checkout.

 

20. Debauchery is sex in which you do not participate.

 

 

21. Those who criticize our generation seem to forget who raised it!

 

22. Stay focused on my life. It may be so interesting that you will be disappointed in yourself.

 

23. Advice is what we ask for when we already know the answer but wish we didn't.

 

24. Medusa has been around as a species for 500 million years, surviving just fine without a brain. This gives hope to many.

 

25. It is not very smart to try to explain something in words in between blows to the face - it turns out indistinctly and often has to be repeated.

 

26. some people prove that complete brain failure does not always lead to physical death.

 

27. My bed is a magical place; I suddenly remember everything I had to do.

 

28. I don't care what people think of me. Mosquitoes find me attractive!

 

29. A bald spot is a clearing that trampled down my thoughts.

 

30. Go to bed early. Don't go to a party. Don't leave the house. My childhood punishments became my adult goals.

 

 

31. Whoever gets up early yawns all day.

 

32. If you don't see the bright side of life, polish off the dull side.

 

33. You have the right to remain silent. Anything you say will be misquoted and then used against you.

 

34. I don't ignore the alarm; I wait to see who breaks first.

 

35. When life gives you lemons, make lemonade, find the person to whom life gave vodka, and throw a party.

 

36. I agree with you, but we would both be wrong.

 

37. Beauty fades. Stupidity is forever.

 

38. I refuse to engage in a battle of wits with an unarmed opponent.

 

39. I am in touch with my motivation. I saw her walking by this morning, waving and winking at me.

 

40. A clear conscience is usually a sign of a bad memory.

 

 

41. If you can't live without me, why haven't you died yet?

 

42. Confessions may be suitable for your soul, but they are hell for your reputation.

 

43. I used to think you were a thorn in my throat. Since then, my opinion of you has dropped significantly.

 

44. I refuse to answer this question on the grounds that I do not know the answer.

 

45. Every rule has an exception. This rule is no exception.

 

46. ​​The way to a woman's refrigerator is through her heart.

 

47. Contraceptive appearance.

 

48. I'm not lying - I'm just good at composing.

 

49. The only man I will run after is the one who will shout, “Maa-aam, catch up with me!”

 

50. Disliked women. Didn't make it.

 

 

51. If you spit in the back, do not be upset .... So you are ahead!

 

52. Nothing limits your actions like the phrase "do whatever you want" ...

 

53. Only the military enlistment office can accept a man as he is.

 

54. You will be ashamed of me but not bored.

 

55. Sorry, I have to go. You bore me to death, and my instincts of self-preservation woke up.

 

56. Here, you send someone in the heat of the moment. And in your soul, you worry: did you reach ... did not reach?

 

57. There are too many open tabs in my brain.

 

58. Originally, laziness manifests itself in charming nuances. The window sill was painted at the house's entrance, along with an ashtray and cigarette butts.

 

59. I always want to lose weight, but he always finds me a "bastard"!

 

60. Of all my qualities, only the Rh factor is positive.