A beautiful relationship develops when the partners really want to be together and do not solve the problems by breaking up every 2 weeks. Any conflict that arises must be sought, understood, resolved and moved on. It must be resolved through communication and understanding of why this has happened. It is never the woman's fault or the man's fault, there is always that "something" that triggers unpleasant experiences. Questions about relationships are found on Quora, so Bemorepanda collected the most useful one.

Let your partners breathe, your desires are different, let the other person express them, let them fulfill them, don't try to control their every move just because you think it's okay. Let your loved ones "exist" because otherwise the captivity will intervene and they will want to leave. If you don't feel comfortable or you don't want to evolve in that direction, you better give up. The change in the couple must be done gradually, never forced, and of course in favor of both. The change is beneficial because a couple must always improve their relationship, but the stupid idea "if he really loves me he loves me the way I am" appears. It's completely false. We are not perfect, we have flaws and pride must be set aside. Less "I'm right" and more love and understanding.

Obviously, don't get trampled on because there are hopeless people who just make fun of themselves and see their interest. There is the fault of the acceptor.

1.What does it mean when a girl acts hot and cold, and when you ask about it tells you "I really like you but I am scared to define our relationship"? How should I react to this?

2.Do I tell my regular hookup that I hooked up with someone else? My reg hookup comes over once or a twice a week only on the weekends, other than that we don’t really talk or hang out.

3.My girlfriend left me because I'm fat. Is it my fault that she left me?

4.Shall I just forgive him?

5.Do you believe in love at first sight and what was that thing you sighted in that person?

It is not the path to loneliness and nothing impossible or unreal. In principle, what you offer to those around you, you receive back, whether you offer good or bad, those things to return to you; this is a law and everyone should keep it in mind, realize that everything that happens on the outside is a reflection of what you are on the inside. If your relationship is not going well it is your fault, if you have a car accident or other bad things that happen to you it is also your fault because the way you think or behave with those around you is destructive and turns against you. Always try to improve your thinking and stop blaming others for what is happening to you. It is easier to say that others are to blame for what you suffer in life, that it is an unpleasant coincidence or that you have been the victim of an unfortunate accident, than to take the blame. Yes, sex is very important besides all these things and I'm talking especially about girls who have the impression that they deserve everything without giving anything in return. And I also mean the man who mocks the woman and has the impression that she is superior to him. "

Every couple relationship needs a lot of work to be beautiful and harmonious. You can't expect to be connected to your partner in the deepest way without doing something about it. Therefore, if you are a couple and want to improve your relationship, here are some extremely useful tips that will definitely be of real use to you.

Understand your partner and accept him as he is. Well, this is essential for a successful relationship. Nowadays, many people, both women and men, say they love but at the same time try to change the personality of their partner, which is definitely wrong. You can't change a person, whether it's your partner, friend, or family member. People simply do not change unless they realize that they need to change, or that certain situations in life force them to change. Otherwise, it's just a waste of time and energy. Therefore, if you want a harmonious couple relationship, accept your partner with good and bad, and learn to let him be in his element.

6.Is emotional expression supposed to come from the female first? Are we supposed to be the emotional guide to open men up?

7.Is it true that women go for a guy’s looks instead of game, confidence, and personality?

8.My partner of 4 years said he no longer has the capacity for a relationship, ends it then asks to meet up. Why?

9.My partner of 4 years said he no longer has the capacity for a relationship, ends it then asks to meet up. Why?

Add salt and pepper to the couple's relationship. And this aspect is extremely important, especially when we talk about a long-term relationship in which the habit has already settled. To surprise your partner, and to add salt and pepper to your relationship, make sure you know what to do to improve your relationship. Watching porn movies from time to time would not be a bad idea, especially if you want to try new techniques and positions. This will help you get to know each other better, and more than that, it will help you avoid the monotony that is so harmful to any couple. So, propose to your partner to watch porn movies together, and you will see that he will also be delighted by this excellent idea.

Be with him in both good and bad times. You cannot say that you love a man only when he is in a good period of his life. If love is sincere, then you will surely be with him even in the worst moments, you will support him, and you will help him to overcome them. When you do this, you strengthen the relationship between you and make the other person love you and appreciate you even more. Only in this way will you be able to build a strong and lasting couple relationship. Otherwise, if you go back to the first problem, the chances of breaking up will increase significantly.

Spend quality time with your boyfriend. No matter how little free time you have, it is very important to know how to spend it so that you feel extraordinarily good around each other. As long as you do something that you both like, you can't go wrong. You can choose to go for a walk in the park, or go to a restaurant that you like very much and that you haven't been to for a long time. Moreover, a romantic dinner at home is also a very good idea that deserves to be considered and put into practice by anyone who wants to improve their relationship.

10.Why do I feel this huge overwhelming feeling of saddness? Trying to make things work with my boyfriend. Who has mentally, emotionally and physically abused me. I see small changes in him but now things just aren't the same.

11.I’m falling for my online friend. We have been speaking for 10 months and met once. I told him I’ve started to develop feelings and he replied if we lived closer he would definitely be dating me I feel heart broken is this clear rejection?

12.I’m falling for my online friend. We have been speaking for 10 months and met once. I told him I’ve started to develop feelings and he replied if we lived closer he would definitely be dating me I feel heart broken is this clear rejection?

13.If your girlfriend was having sex (only one time) by mistake (drunk, etc.) with another man, and that makes her pregnant, would you still accept her?

14.Do really rich men ever know if the women they are with are only with them for their money or not?

15.My girlfriend of three years is really upset about her ex getting engaged. Am I wrong to be bothered by this?

16.How would you explain the difference between having healthy boundaries and being controlling?

17.What will you teach your child that your parents never did?

18.What extreme test would you give to your daughter's boyfriend to see if he is worthy of dating her?

19.What's an unpopular opinion you have about relationships?

20.Is it wrong if you wished that your boyfriend was a little bit more possessive?

21.How do you tell yourself to walk away from a long term relationship when you have been unhappy for months?

22.My 17 year old son threatened to steal my car unless I buy him a new one. How can I explain to him that I can't afford another car?

23.How does one avoid getting a divorce?

24.What are some unsaid rules of relationships?

25.How do you know if you are in an unhealthy or toxic relationship?

26.I am not comfortable with my boyfriend keeping in touch with his ex. What should I do?

27.Can love run out of fuel?

28.What is the brutal truth about relationships?

29.My husband plays around too much, and doesn’t listen to me when I say “no” the first time. Would that teach my daughter that “no” means “yes”?

30.How do you know when it's time to leave a relationship?

31.What are some great real life love stories?

32.What are the things about marriage you wish you would have known sooner?

33.My vegan friend asked me to a dinner party, but indicated that despite me accommodating her dietary preferences when she is a guest in my home, she will not reciprocate. How should I respond?

34.What should I do when my husband gave me an ultimatum of a diet or a divorce?

35.What relationship sin should you avoid at all costs?

36.What is the most "F-ck This I'm out" moment of your relationship?

37.Have you ever loved someone so much so that you lost a part of yourself?

38.What distinct differences have you noticed between relationships that work well and relationships that don't?

39.How were you negatively affected by staying in a relationship that you knew was not good for you but you were too in love to break off?

40.Why is it that nearly half of respondents who say they want a serious relationship haven't been on a date in the past 12 months?

41.My wife has changed since marrying me. She isn't as laid back and free spirited as she used to be. The same thing happened with my ex-wife too which led to our divorce. Why do they get bitter after marriage?

42.Why am I a 24-year-old with no friends? How can I fix this?

43.How do I tell my fiancée she's better looking than my ex-girlfriends?

44.Is moving on a lie?

45.How do you deal with a husband who is a mamma's boy?

46.My boyfriend doesn’t call or text me for days and set days that he will come and visit me in my apartment. I asked him what’s going on and he said “a lot”. What should I do?

47.My boyfriend gets mad at me for no clear reasons. I always tell him that we can solve all of our problems by communicating, but he just doesn't open up. What should I do?

48.What is the one thing that will instantly make you break up with your partner?

49.How do I tell my man he doesnt make me happy?

50.Does childhood trauma continue to adult age and become serious?

51.I really like a boy in my class. He's a topper and we are not friends yet. He doesn't talk easily too. How can I make him notice me?

52.My TF runner blocked me after saying I looked different. Why?

53.How do I handle a toxic (ego, selfish) girlfriend? How can I solve this without leaving her?

54.What do you wish a girl knew or understood about you boys? How do you want to be treated?

55.I recently asked my crush for a date, but she replied “not right now”. What does it mean?

56.What should I do if I really like a boy and I already have a boyfriend?

57.What does it mean when a girl has two short nails?

58.How should I stop the influence of my inlaws from our relationship?

59.What can I do to proove my girlfriend that I love her alone and never to dought?

60.What is the one thing that will instantly make you break up with your partner?

When you are just on the path to a new relationship or at the very beginning of one, it is essential to get to know your current/potential love partner as best as possible. After all, if you are serious and want to continue, and ideally go hand in hand all your life, it is essential to get to know your heart friend as best as possible: what he loves, what he does not accept, whether his worldview suits you and even whether you are suitable in terms of intimacy ... After all, many, blinded by the initial passion, bask in the rays of their feelings, not thinking about what's next ... And then there may be a dead end ... Or, on the contrary, a happy life with a person who is close in spirit.

 

How to get to know your new love better and reveal his inner world

 

Bemorepanda is ready to help you try to find out if you are compatible with the object of your passion. To do this, we have compiled a list of questions on various topics that you can ask on occasion. And there you can see whether this person is yours, whether he is worth your attention or if it is better not to waste time and spiritual resources on him.

 

Indiscreet questions

 

1. What turns you on the most?

 

2. What is your favorite sex position?

 

3. How do you feel about one night stand?

 

4. What are your biggest flaws?

 

5. What is the maximum number of times you have had sex in a 24 hour period?

 

6. Where is the hottest place you have had sex?

 

7. How do you feel about the CCP (the CCP is a public display of love that does not include sex and caresses, but only hugs, light kisses, holding hands, and other forms of subtle touching)?

 

8. Have you ever had sex in public?

 

9. How old were you when you lost your virginity?

 

10. What was your first time like?

 

11. What is your favorite kind of porn?

 

12. What is your favorite sex toy?

 

13. Do you have sexual fantasies?

 

Deep questions

 

14. What do you miss from your childhood?

 

15. What do you like most about yourself?

 

16. What do you regret most in life?

 

17. What makes you happiest?

 

18. What would you say to your 15-year-old self?

 

19. What infuriates you about others?

 

20. How is your relationship with your parents?

 

21. Are you a believer?

 

22. What is the purpose of your life?

 

23. What's the worst thing about dating today?

 

Flirtatious questions

 

24. When was your first kiss?

 

25. What was your first impression of me?

 

26. What will we do on our next date?

 

27. Do you like it when someone else makes the first move?

 

28. What do you find sexy?

 

29. Do you like to cuddle?

 

30. If you have a one night stand, do you prefer to stay the night or leave?

 

31. Do I make you nervous?

 

32. What is your best pickup line (dating for the purpose of seduction)?

 

33. What do you wear to bed?

 

Serious questions

 

34. What can ruin a relationship for you?

 

35. Do you want children?

 

36. What is the latest news you have read?

 

37. What are your favorite qualities in a friend?

 

38. What was your hardest breakup?

 

39. What is the #1 goal you still want to achieve in life?

 

40. What are you most proud of?

 

41. What are your views on marriage?

 

42. What are you most afraid of?

 

43. Have you ever cheated on your significant other?

 

44. Have you ever been cheated on?

 

45. What red flags do you have in a relationship?

 

Funny questions

 

46. ​​What is your best joke?

 

47. If you were a cookie, which one would you be?

 

48. If you were / - an animal, what kind?

 

49. What is your biggest regret in fashion?

 

50. How would you prepare for a zombie apocalypse?

 

51. What superpower would you like to have?

 

52. What was your first email address?

 

53. What is the weirdest fun fact you know?

 

54. If you could do something right now without judgment, what would it be?

 

Questions to ask your crush to find out if he/she likes you

 

55. What are your favorite qualities in a partner?

 

56. What is your love language?

 

57. Am I your type?

 

58. Have you told your friends about me?

 

59. How do you feel about a serious relationship?

 

60. Would you change anything about how we met?

 

61. Would you like to have some coffee sometime?

 

Romantic questions

 

62. What is your ideal date?

 

63. What do you like in a relationship?

 

64. Do you fall in love easily?

 

65. Do you believe in kindred spirits?

 

66. What do you like most about yourself?

 

67. What would you like to change in your next relationship?

 

68. What is the most romantic thing you have ever done for someone?

 

69. What is the most romantic thing someone has done for you?

 

70. Do you believe in monogamy?

 

71. What do you think we have in common?

 

Questions to ask during a chat

 

72. What was your favorite lesson in elementary school?

 

73. What was the last concert you attended?

 

74. What is your earliest memory?

 

75. What is your favorite city you have ever been to?

 

76. What was your most vivid dream?

 

77. Where do you want to go on your next vacation?

 

78. What TV show or movie could you watch forever?

 

79. Who is your favorite celebrity?

 

80. What's the best advice you've ever received?

 

Juicy questions

 

81. Have you ever been in love?

 

82. Have you ever broken someone's heart?

 

83. What is your most memorable kiss?

 

84. Is there anything you refuse to compromise on?

 

85. Who will you scroll through automatically?

 

86. Are you a good kisser?

 

87. What was the worst date you have ever gone on?

 

88. What is your favorite body part of a romantic partner?

 

89. What scares you in a relationship?

 

90. Do you miss any of your exes?

 

Best relationship advice: how to stay together for a long time. A phrase that everyone repeats: “Relationships are not easy!”. They develop in a natural rhythm according to the will of feelings: they met, fell in love, and decided to be together. But the people involved can make it complicated.

 

We are not too pleased with the idea that "relationships need to be worked on." What kind of nonsense is this, but what about love? Why is a harmonious union, which arose from a great and bright feeling, not able to magically work by itself, like a well-oiled machine?

 

Unfortunately, even the heroes of fairy tales do not hope for this. Relationships take effort, and they can be strong and happy - if you know the right life hacks. A romantic connection can be strengthened and improved by working in two ways:

 

• demanding more of myself
• ordering more from a partner.

 

No magic is required; everything is straightforward and set out below in ten tips. You get a sure chance to extend your relationship to the "forever" mode.

 

 

What bonds the relationship between partners

True love is not like romantic love, which makes us not notice the shortcomings of a partner. It's a choice. This is the constant support of another person, regardless of the circumstances. This is an understanding that your relationship will not always be cloudless. This is the need to deal with the problems of a partner, his fears and thoughts, even when you don’t feel like it at all. Such love is more prosaic, it requires much more effort from partners. But still, it gives a person much more. After all, in the end, it brings real happiness, and not another short-lived euphoria.

 

What breaks the relationship between partners

Many still believe in the myth "love lives for three years." After a while, they face misunderstanding, quarrels and reproach the partner with the phrase: “You are no longer the person I knew before.” But in fact, this is normal, because we all change throughout life, and failures and disagreements are inevitable. And how strong the relationship will be depends on how you meet these adversities together. Clinical psychologist and family therapist Mikaela Thomas is sure that eternal love exists. In his book, which is called “Love lives forever. How to Overcome Difficulties and Maintain Intimacy in Long-term Relationships”, she tells the MIF publishing house how to return kindness, warmth and harmony to a couple. In one of the chapters, the author discusses why people break up and how to work on relationships in order to achieve mutual understanding. Below we share this passage and recommend reading the book in its entirety.

 

Do long-distance relationships last?

Couples rarely decide on long-distance relationships consciously. The reason lovers find themselves in different cities may be studying, circumstances at work, or family situations. Suppose you choose to keep your feelings far away from each other. In that case, you will have to face several trials.

 

Temptations will follow you at every turn. The lack of attention, affection, and closeness of a loved one can provoke partners to find solace in the arms of others. To protect yourself from such a risk, avoid places of entertainment, noisy companies, and close communication with the opposite sex, especially over a portion of alcohol.

 

All the tips and tricks you need to keep your love alive.

 

 

1. Don't sacrifice your personal life

This kind of freedom is difficult to combine with serious intentions, not in the sense that “keep going on dates with a stable partner.” You can burn with a sincere passion for each other, but this does not mean that the rest of your life should be dissolved in selfless adoration. Do not forget your friends and loved ones, do not give up evening yoga, Saturday sessions at the spa, and Sunday breakfasts with your sister. Take care of your independence, don’t drown your personality in love, don’t get into the habit of asking for time off and reporting - having lost the status of a single, you can still do whatever you want, whenever you want. It invigorates, maintains self-esteem, and saves relationships from routine and boredom.

 

2. Be honest with your feelings

 

Tell yourself the truth and only the truth: are you pleased? Satisfied? Physically, emotionally, mentally? Yes, this is not easy - female nature is prone to sacrificial compromises, but these three points are crucial. If you are connected only by mind-blowing sex, sooner or later, the problem is, “what about talking?” Will arise. If you entertain each other with a play on words, but at the same time, intimacy slips into a “C grade,” - the prognosis is also unfavorable. Or are you satisfied with both the mind and physiology, but he avoids talking about love and has never given a flower? This will soon cease to suit you, too. The secret of solid reciprocity is in a stable and natural connection on all points; therefore, make sure that everything in your relationship is the way it is, or at least goes towards it. In other scenarios, think about ways to retreat.

 

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3. Don't harass or get jealous

Oh, that eternal female question: "Where are you?" piercing men like a voodoo spellcaster's needle. If you bombard him with messages 24/7, call him a hundred times a day. In general, your world revolves only around him. It's time to admit that your feelings are mutating into addiction. Persecution strangles men. This approach will not help to keep anyone acting the opposite precisely. Be more confident in yourself, do not worry. He will not go anywhere. And even if you got such a hot handsome man that it's hard not to worry about this topic, convince yourself that you will be fine anyway. Disable the chase option. Once and forever. Remember that you are the fire. Let him chase you. It's much more fun.

 

4. Love yourself and take care of yourself

Many women complain that they either cannot find the right partner or are always attracted to specimens who treat them incorrectly. Low self-esteem: we attract the level of love that we experience for ourselves. It is impossible to burn yourself with the napalm of self-criticism daily and expect others to treat you like a queen. Men easily read it.

 

Look at your qualities positively and start loving yourself for who you are right now. And if you love yourself, then take care of yourself - stay healthy, go to bed on time, indulge in a relaxing bubble bath, or maybe have a spontaneous bachelorette party tonight. It is essential to pamper yourself by nourishing the soul outside of the relationship. Otherwise, you will have nothing to give.

 

5. Don't try to please and accommodate.

The desire to please is based on the expectation of positive feedback: love, kindness, and gratitude. However, the world is unnecessarily generous with negativity. People will gladly use you, recognizing the need to give themselves without reserve. Relationships are a two-way street: pamper yourself, but make sure you're spoiled. Strive for a healthy balance of self-giving and selfishness. And please, don’t be fooled by the fear of loneliness, agreeing to options from the series “let it be so” - this approach does not bring happiness. I am not one of those waiting for Mr. Perfection, but I firmly believe that we can count on the “what we need” option.

 

6. Don't avoid problems

Nobody likes conflict. There are certainly people entertained by strife, but they are in the minority. But what happens if the partners, not wanting to sort things out, constantly turn on avoidance mode? Nothing good. If you avoid problems for years, they will accumulate. One day you will wake up 25 years later and realize that you will never be able to sort them out because you have long forgotten how this huge pile began. Don't suppress negative (or positive) emotions. Talk to your partner about any issues that are bothering you. Firstly, you are a team, which means we must work together to overcome adversity. And secondly, you always deserve respect and the right to speak out.

 

7. Make time for each other

Yes, you have your own life, but, on the other hand, you need to find a balance between the private and the general. Otherwise, the relationship may wither at the most promising stage. Your connection needs care and attention, confessions and walks, surprises and gifts, romantic dates, and cozy home evenings. Be creative. Spare no energy to feed your feelings.

 

8. Make Equal Efforts

There is an opinion that relationships require a return of 50 to 50. What nonsense, only 100 to 100! Both partners must put 100% effort every day to maintain the relationship at the right degree and dynamics. It is challenging to expect harmony from the connection "100 to 20", "100 to 50," or even "100 to 99". You must be equal. If your alliance is out of balance, you need to talk about it to get back on track.

 

9. Be generous with empathy and appreciation

When acting as a team, you cannot oppose each other. So, you can not consider only your point of view. Whether you're right or wrong, accept the reality of the difference in perception. If your partner sees the situation differently, try to understand and, most importantly, let him know that you respect his view of things. What else? Be a good listener, and feel free to be grateful. Even if he just loaded the dishwasher, tell him, "thank you." Thank him for what he does for you, and he will want to do it again to make you happy. And, of course, he will be grateful in return.

 

10. Don't try to change it

It is no secret that many women believe that they can change the man they decide to connect their lives with. “If I make him lose 10 kilos, he will be much more attractive”, or “If I can wean him from video games, I will be happy,” or “Once we get married, he will change for the better” - all these internal insinuations have no relationship to real love and long-term happiness. If you don't like the way he looks, talks, or kisses right now, without thinking of any miraculous changes, you shouldn't be with him. Dot. Free yourself from fictitious duties - leave it to someone who will be happy with the original.

 

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